Rejecting illicit sexual life is our first motto. Therefore, I ask you to immediately let go of all this nonsense and stay firm in your good conduct. I have a great appreciation for your skills and hope you do what is necessary so that there are no more accusations against your good conduct. The wife of any brother in faith or any single girl in our society should always be treated as mother and sister. Any married woman should be treated as a mother. (Letter from Prabhupada to Vasudeva 14 October 1971)